Paternity leave is an expression not often heard or discussed. It is almost taboo to even give it consideration. The idea of a man taking time off to bond with his newborn infant seems laughable to many. In this 21st century why is that still the case? At a time when fathers are being much maligned for being absent from the home, should we not give support and encouragement to those men who are shouldering their family responsibilities?

When it comes to 2 AM feedings, diaper changes and loss of sleep, it is automatic to think of the new mom being the one to cope with these challenges. Well, it is time to think again. Many new Dads are stepping up and embracing all the ups and downs that a tiny newborn can create. These men recognize that the mothers cannot and should not handle these tasks all on their own. So they forgo sleep, rest and relaxation in order to share fully in the care of their infants.

Many Dads-to-be know that it is crucial to be involved right from the start with their babies. Taking time to bond with the baby at birth will help the child to feel safe and secure with the father. It will also help to forge a stronger relationship with the child as it grows older. To have a close and loving rapport with his infant means more to such dedicated Dads-to-be than anything else in the world.

So the question is how can friends and family assist these fathers in carrying such a monumental load? The solution is really quite simple. Give him a gift basket that shows you care and understand the challenges he will face. These self-sacrificing fathers need their sleep. Many gift baskets offer items that promote a good night's sleep such as thick spa robes, warm slippers, sleep mist sprays, massaging neck pillows and other nifty things to help him relax. Such a luxurious but inexpensive gift will surely put a smile on the face of any Dad-to-be or new Dad. He will know that he is surrounded by people who care for him and want him to be the best Dad that he can be.

Whether we are Dads-to-be or not, all of us require a good night's sleep. To be successful at any endeavor we need to be sharp and alert, which is not always possible when we are tired and groggy. Trying to be a good father or mother can be one of the most fulfilling and rewarding jobs in life. Why not increase the chances of success by giving ourselves an advantage? The advantage of getting peaceful sleep each night can help us overcome any of life's challenges, even the ones that can fit in the palm of a new Dad.